As parents must be able to provide guidance and appropriate direction for children to be a good human and noble character as we want later when they have grown up.
Age 0 years is a critical period for brain development of the child. It is at this stage that the child experiences a period of gold where the brain develops rapidly and rapidly. At this time even the child's brain has the ability to absorb new experiences faster than 3-year-olds. Therefore, you should not be wrong in educating or giving examples for your children.
How to educate a child has many methods. The extent to which the success of the method is applied will depend on how effectively each parent contributes to his or her children. So that you are not confused in providing direction for children, here are some ways to educate a child you can try.
13 Tips and How to Educate Children
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1. Be gentle and show genuine affection
As a parent, always being gentle to the child is the absolute thing to do. For with only a soft word, a child will listen to the words of his parents. In addition to being demanded to be gentle to the child, parents should also provide a sincere and whole love to the child. One example is to tell the child that you love him very much. Hugs or kisses can also be an excitement for the soul of the child you can do.
2. Be a good listener and give support
Maybe your child has ever felt in the banter by his peers. As a good parent, try to approach the child to tell the story. At times like that you are required to be a good listener and able to listen to all the complaints and small baby. This is the key to success in building the confidence of the child.
Give positive support and supply him with the skills to avoid his friend's oloe and the ability to socialize well. For example you can teach your child to avoid a taunt from his friend. For example if there is a friend who says "You ugly", then the most appropriate answer is "It's okay, the important thing I am clever". Children who are used to making fun of it will feel bored with such answers because the ridicule is not taken seriously and do not get the feedback as he wants, for example by crying, complaining or angry.
3. Build creativity by playing together
Teaching children does not mean to always make "new rules" that are not fun for him, but also can be played together. Let him learn something from you in much more fun ways like playing, dancing or playing music together.
4. Avoid using the word "Do not"
This is one of the mistakes often made by parents. While the child is experimenting that may be a bit dangerous, parents generally say "do not" to their children. In fact this word if too often spoken by parents to their children can actually be negative consequences that cause the child does not develop creativity. To replace the word "do not", you should use other words that are more positive. Examples of cases such as a child running, then the mother said "Do not run!". Indeed, what is meant by the mother is "walking" alone but the child does not catch this meaning. So the sentence that should be used is "Walk only" or "Slowly" and so forth.
5. Be role models and idols for your child
In general every child has a "superhero" idol in the world of his imagination. But in the real world, he too would want to have it. You as a parent as much as possible try to be what the child wants and always be reliable. One is to do whatever you think is best to give to your children.
6. Give a sense of comfort
Grow a sense of comfort when your child is with you. Ask for a small discussion on the sidelines of your togetherness. In order for the child to feel comfortable, you should not be the one who felt the most know everything that makes you seem to dominate the conversation. Make her like a friend who also needs you to listen well and sympathetically.
7. Grow the attitude of respect
Teach him to always respect who he is, both the elder and his peers. It is important to grow from an early age because later in life when he grows up he can respect everyone.
8. Teach a sense of responsibility
Teach and remind your child to always have a sense of responsibility towards him. For example, if the time has come for school, he must leave. If he asks why it should be so. Give reasons that can be understood by him.
9. Teach to apologize
Apologizing for a mistake is a noble act and a knight. Teach your child to apologize for any mistakes he or she may have made to his peers so that he realizes that his actions are less than commendable.
10. Do not be scared
Parents usually tend to take an easy "shortcut". In addition to lying, parents are also usually often frighten children to her son to obey immediately. This is a misguided parental behavior because in addition to being a kind of trauma when he matures, it also causes the child to become independent so that it can confine its creativity.
11. Do not be lied to
Similarly, being frightened, children who are often lied to as a child will become accustomed to the lies instilled by their parents. When he gets older, he would think lying is a natural thing to do because everyone including his parents do it too.
12. Do not say loud and threatening
Many people say the child is no different than an empty white paper. Whether or not a child also depends on what parents teach him. Therefore try to avoid as much as possible loud words, threatening or even yelling at the child. If the child's behavior may seem naughty or stubborn, try to hold your emotions and say gently and wisely.
13. Teach openness
When you have free time with the baby. Invite to talk and try to find out about their daily life. Whatever he does, what makes him happy, what makes him sad or even makes him excited. With the opening of the child, you can also look for a gap to be able to know the nature of the child as well as an inspiration for parents. Good and wise parents are parents who can take experiences and lessons from anyone including their own.
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